Få barn er noe helt annet

Nå har jeg sett meg lei på alle spørsmålene rundt dette tema. La meg få gjøre dette klinkende klart..slik at vi får en klarhet i dette, en gang for alle ?

Facebook spør hva jeg tenker på, nå skal du høre!

Er det virkelig sånn som jeg har lagt merke til at det er et krav fra samfunnets side at de fleste menn eller kvinner MÅ bli foreldre?

Når jeg besvarer dette spørsmål med at jeg ikke ønsker å bli pappa så lar ikke reaksjonene vente på seg.

Svar som stikker dypt:
– Du er enda ung
– Du har hele livet foran deg
– Det å få barn er en fantastisk opplevelse.
– Jeg hadde også samme innstilling som deg da jeg var på din alder, men nå som jeg har blitt eldre og fått barn, kunne jeg ikke tenkt meg noe annet.
-Hvordan kan du være så bestemt på at du ikke ønsker barn, Alexander?
– Du har en egoistisk tankegang og framtoning.

Hva om jeg faktisk IKKE ønsker å få barn, eller å ha det ansvaret som kreves for å bli forelder?

Når folk hører det, har de en helt spesiell evne til å gå inn i en slaks overbevisningsmodus for å ja, selvsagt overbevise meg om at det å få barn er noe av det beste man kan oppleve.

Kanskje det ble en god opplevelse for deg, det betyr ikke at det er det for meg??

Men seriøst, jeg har opplevd mye flott i livet mitt, på kort tid og mer skal det bli.

Dette nettop fordi at jeg har tid, overskudd og at min arbeidssituasjon er så fri som den er blitt.

Videre har jeg tenkt å gjøre akuratt hva jeg vil, reise dit drømmene tar meg.
Den eneste jeg har ansvaret for er meg selv?

Som du sikkert har forstått hvis du har lest ned hit, så har ikke jeg lyst på barn og skal vi være helt ærlig så trenger ikke hele Norges befolkning å få barn for å være lykkelige eller tilfredstille andres behov og samfunnsansvar.

TABU er dessverre bare en liten del i en lang avhandling fra mange samfunnsvitere der ute.

Men sant skal sies, det er bedre å være bevist på at man ikke ønsker barn, en å ikke være bevist å faktisk få barn.

Respekter mitt valg, jeg har det bra, lever godt og har nok med å ta vare på meg selv å de rundt meg❤️

Barnevakt er en fin ting, da kan jeg levere de tilbake, når de er lei meg ??

Foto: Joachim Goa Steinbru

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